WHY THIS EXISTS
A few years ago I made a small decision.
Whenever someone asked me how I was, I decided I'd give them a genuinely positive answer. Whether I felt it or not.
Not "not bad."
Not "can't complain."
Something like "wonderful."
I felt like a bit of an idiot the first few times. But people smiled. Some of them laughed. A few asked what I was so happy about, and I didn't really have an answer beyond “nothing, I just decided to say it.”
So I kept going. I started saying hello to people I'd normally walk straight past. Smiling first, instead of waiting to see if they would. The bloke at the servo. The woman walking her dog. Whoever was next to me in the lift.
Most of the time, I got something back. A smile. A nod. Sometimes an actual conversation with a total stranger that had no business happening on a Tuesday morning.
